https://katherinephelps.com/2020/05/stop-damaging-ourselves/
"So many of us were raised by people who were damaged and who
controlled, judged, and manipulated us through physical and/or emotional
violence. So many of us are damaged and relate to the world through that
damage.
To survive others of our kind we resort to the strategies used to
protect ourselves from predators: fight, flight, fawn, or freeze. We all
use a mix of these in different ways at different times."
Cheers,
*** Xanni ***
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mailto:xanni@xanadu.net Andrew Pam
http://www.xanadu.com.au/ Chief Scientist, Xanadu
http://www.glasswings.com.au/ Partner, Glass Wings
http://www.sericyb.com.au/ Manager, Serious Cybernetics